My Wife Voluntarily Stopped Eating and Drinking (VSED) to End Her Suffering – June 2025
Faye Girsh interviewed a man whose 82-year old wife voluntarily stopped eating and drinking. With the support of a doctor and hospice care, she was able to achieve a peaceful end to her years of unbearable suffering with chronic pain. VSED (Voluntarily Stopping Eating and Drinking) is useful especially for people who do not meet the strict criteria for Medical Aid in Dying where it is legal. In California, the End of Life Option Act requires that two doctors agree that the person has six months or less to live with a terminal illness. In this case, the patient’s chronic suffering was irremediable, but not terminal.
August 23, 2026.
Voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED) is a legal choice to end hopeless suffering by hastening death. More people are considering this end-of-life option, but few truly understand it. A daughter, a doctor, and a death doula explain the medical, practical, and emotional support that can help ensure a peaceful and dignified end-of-life experience.
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