When Mom Chooses to Die: Experiences with California’s Medical Aid-in-dying Law, the End of Life Option Act
Sisters Marge Wurgel and Loretta Solsberry relate the experience of their Mom’s sudden diagnosis of metastasized cancer and her decision to take control and end her life on her own terms.
..an almost perfect death
– -Marge Wurgel
Laurie Schmid talks about her mother’s death in the care center of a retirement home using the End of Life Option Act with her long-term primary care doctor and friend Faye Girsh in attendance.
Lynda Engle talks about her husband’s struggle with cancer, how he qualified and received the end-of-life drug, had a much improved quality of life once he gave up treatment and entered hospice, but in the end became unable to use the drug due to his mental condition.
Preparations for death: “It’s never too early to get started.”
-Lynda Engle
Schnack Judith, MSN, RN, FNP from End of Life Choices, CA told us how this new organization provides volunteers to help individuals navigate the process, mix the drugs so your family does not have to, and be present during ingestion if desired. She advises that the time to make your end of life plans are before a health problem develops. If you believe you may want to take advantage of the End of Life Option Act, you must ASK for it; most medical professionals will not present this as an option.
“Do everything early … if you haven’t done your paperwork, if you haven’t talked to your family, if you haven’t talked to your doctor, do it tomorrow.”
August 23, 2026.
Voluntarily stopping eating and drinking (VSED) is a legal choice to end hopeless suffering by hastening death. More people are considering this end-of-life option, but few truly understand it. A daughter, a doctor, and a death doula explain the medical, practical, and emotional support that can help ensure a peaceful and dignified end-of-life experience.
June 14, 2026
What do you do when the law won’t allow the kind of death you want? For a growing number of Americans, the answer is: go to Switzerland. This program brings together perspectives rarely heard side by side:
A wife’s story – Pat Spears shares her deeply personal journey and the decisions she and her husband, Bert – facing Alzheimer’s – made to travel to Switzerland.
A practical roadmap – John Watson, the mastermind behind The Switzerland Alternative, introduces a trusted resource for navigating end-of-life options in Switzerland.
Inside perspective – Experts from Pegasos explain the process, requirements, and realities of Voluntary Assisted Death in Switzerland
Whether you are planning ahead or simply want to understand what options exist beyond U.S. borders, this program offers insight you won’t find in the headlines.
On May 22, 2026, Professor Thaddeus Mason Pope, JD, PhD, HEC-C, was the guest speaker for the Girsh endowed lecture on Medical Aid in Dying to the UCSD School of Medicine. The lecture begins at 11:05. Professor Pope reviewed the evolution of the California End of Life Option Act over its first decade, then discussed how medical aid in dying is likely to evolve over the next five years, including: (1) by expanding access to people with dementia, (2) by changing eligibility requirements, and (3) by amending safeguards to be more evidence based.
4/30/2026 From Dorset, England, Sean Davison, Ph.D. (microbiology)., discusses the legal challenges he has faced, including arrests and sentencing for assisting people in their efforts to die with dignity on their own terms. He also briefly discusses Voluntary Assisted Dying via Swiss clinics. Sean served for 5 years as the head of the World Federation of Right to Die Societies, worked with Pegasos Swiss Clinic, and is the author of 3 books.